The Marriage Prayer

Hellow guyssss! It has been a long time yaaa since i posted my last posting. Actually nowadays i work as a hawker selling steam rice! I always come back to home late night and  i should prepare my food with my father, mother and also my sister. so grateful they wanna help me. although i must take part bigger than the others, ya thanks because they help me without asking me to give them something. Ya, the job takes lots of my time, and i feel so overwhelmed when i arrive at my home. But at this time, maybe my body have accustomed. Therefore i decided to write at this time.

So, today i am gonna to share about an amazing song that teaches me how to love your mate in future. Even though i still do not have girl friends,,, I mean a girl friend, it makes me realize how to love your mate in future or how the way you treat your destiny later. This is a piece of the song :

The Marriage Prayer

Father, I said till*
Death do us part
I want to mean it
With all of my heart
Help me to love You
More than I love her
Then I know I can 
Love her more
Than anyone else

And bring her in
Your presence today
Make her what 
You want her to be

I pray to hear her heart
I pray she'll love you more
I pray to cherish and serve her
And we'll bring you glory today, I pray

This is my prayer Amen

Artist: John Waller


First of all, before i heard this song, i was scared to find someone to be my girl friend. i was scared to have a family in the future because i had seen many occasion that my parents quarreled each other(in the past, almost every day both of them quarreled) and there was the thrid person(but now is done). and there were lots of things that i could not tell you now. The things that accused me, told me that you were useless, whether you are going to marry, you even will be more worst than them. The things made me lack of confidence banget, when i wanted to be closer with a girl. i had ever asked frequently why my parents are married, i cannot see the beautiful of marriage from them. But it does not mean that they do not love their children.

When i met a girl who made my heart beating fast, my eyes could not close even in a brief time when i was viewing her, i got some nervous, i could not speak(especially when she was smiling and wore white cloth or dress. Ahahaha. it was over sweet. Inikah rasanya jatuh cinta? Alahhh. Hahahaha.)Yes, when i met her, first thing that appeared in my mind, what should i do to catch her attention at me(i believe almost everyone does the same thing), but after i thought it, my mind said that what do you have? were you worthy to be closer with her? Were you capable for her? Did not you remember that you have nothing. Maybe someday you could BE CHEATING her. You heritage your parents sins! You would just bring lots of problems for her. Whether you like her then it was better to keep away from her. You had nothing to build a relationship. And at the end, you could guess, every time i met her, i just could say hello, or even just smile or cuman papasan. What ashamed! To just sit next to her, i was too scared. Ahahaha. I had prepared lots of topic that may could make a long conversation with her, but ya you could guess. It never happened at that periods. How were pitiful me.

I knew it was very very wrong, very very stupid, very very wrong, very very useless. I had to get up and be yourself. Just go and be yourself, I knew that. I very very knew that! Hello! Hello my mind, could not you hear that! Be yourself, you are a great son of Jesus. You can do it! Forget about the accusers! But, ya still i saw lots of things that made me lack of confidence. I shouted to Jesus, what should i do!

In short, a long conversation never happen until now. Ahahaha. I have regret. It created awkward moments many times instead.

After i heard this song, the key to have a great relationship, it does not need you to have everything in this World, you do not have to worry whether will you love your mate forever or maybe you will fall in love with another one even you are married? The key is so simple. Praying to God, and asking Him to help us love Him more and more than anyone else. Therefore you can love your mate than anyone else! Because people who fully love Jesus, will never ever try to cheat his mate.  And i believe, you will have a sincere love to your mate if you fully and truly love Christ because of His grace. Character of man(karakter seorang pria). Praying to Christ, and He will show you the character. In addition, Christ will bless entire your family and also make you always love your mate.

I Pray
With all of my heart
Help me to love You
More than I love her
Then I know I can 
Love her more
Than anyone else

Furthermore, what i have got. Maybe it is still far away for me to be married, but this song tells me that love God first. That is the main point. Love God first, let God do the rest. He will give in its time. So, cheers up and smile!



NB: Life is not about marriage, but He send someone to complete us to demonstrate His glory through our relationship. Amen.